Bad news. I think I wrote about my good friend Theresa who was pregnant and had her baby over thanksgiving....well, I learned yesterday that her baby, who was born at around 24 weeks the day after Thanksgiving is not doing well at all. From what I understand his kidneys have shut down and unless he is able to go to urinate and release the fluid he probably will not make it. It's been 3 days since he's gone to the bathroom. It's a very, very sad situation and I know it's really weighing on my friend. I've been calling her everyday...I wonder if that’s more annoying than helpful? I decided that being annoying is a risk worth taking...It'd be terrible for her to feel that no one cares about what she's going through...I am considerate though...I always ask if she feels like talking and if the answer is "No" then I just let her know that I'm here and praying for her if she needs me. Theresa has wanted to have a baby since I can remember (I've known her since the mid 90's). And now to come so close and see it slip away...I really cannot imagine how that must feel.
As much as I complain about my children (and believe me I do!!) I cannot imagine my life without them. It's impossible to contemplate how much they have changed my life...and made me into the person I am. I think I take things for granted sometimes...in fact, I'm sure of it...especially when it comes to the children. It's so easy to get caught up in the day to day "stuff" that you don't appreciate the beauty of it all. I am so blessed...
My heart and prayers go out to my friend...and all others in similar situations. I don’t know much...but what I know, I'm sure of... God is able...and He loves us. My mom always said, "All things work together for the good of those who love the Lord". I believe that. Even tragedy can work together for your good. Sounds crazy, but trust me on this one. I'm sure that whatever happens God will take care of them.